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Friday, February 20, 2026

Is our Faith Relational or Ritualistic?




Gospel
Matthew 9:14-15


Reading

Jesus answered them, “Can the wedding guests mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? The days will come when the bridegroom is taken away from them, and then they will fast.” (Matthew 9:15)


Revelation

Today, the Lord calls us to set our priorities straight. Jesus is with us all the way. He wants us to enjoy life to the full and this means going out of our way from traditional beliefs and rituals to follow His ways. Fasting is about emptying up ourselves so that the Lord can fill us up.


Reflection

In this metaphor, Jesus refers to Himself as the “bridegroom” and His disciples as the “wedding guests”. He suggests that while He is present with His disciples, it’s a time for joy, not mourning or fasting. However, a time will come when He will be taken away (a reference to His death and ascension), and then His disciples will fast. This passage is often interpreted as Jesus introducing a new covenant, where the old practices (like ritual fasting) are not necessary when one is in the direct presence of God (Jesus). However, in His absence, these practices can be a way to express longing for His return.


Response

Lord Jesus, our Bridegroom, thank You for the gift of Your presence. In moments of joy, help us to celebrate Your love. In seasons of longing, teach us to seek You with sincere hearts. Let our spiritual practices be expressions of our desire to know You more. Guide us to live in relationship, not ritual, and fill us with hope while we await Your return. Amen.