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Thursday, January 22, 2026

How Well do People Know you?

 


He warned them sternly 
not to make him known. 
(Mark 3:12)


Revelation

It is not popularity that matters. Our true identity must always be grounded on humility and not the ego of popularity. Pride and ego are demons of life prowling on our dealings and relationships with other people that we must avoid at all times. In this way, people will love us instead of idolizing us.


Reflection

In a world increasingly obsessed with recognition and social validation, it is easy to fall into the trap of equating popularity with self-worth. Yet, true identity is not forged in the fleeting applause of the crowd, but in the quiet strength of humility. Humility is not self-deprecation, but a clear-eyed understanding of one’s strengths and weaknesses, and a willingness to serve others without seeking reward or recognition.

When our actions are driven by the desire to be admired or idolized, we risk losing sight of our authentic selves. Pride can isolate us, making genuine connection difficult, while ego can blind us to the needs and feelings of others. 

The journey toward humility often involves recognizing our dependence on something greater than ourselves, whether that is faith, community, or a sense of shared humanity. Humility allows us to approach others with openness and empathy. It invites us to listen, to learn, and to support, rather than to dominate or impress. It is often linked to service—offering our talents and time for the benefit of others, not for personal glory but out of genuine care. When we act from humility, we foster relationships built on trust and mutual respect, rather than on competition or envy.

When we ground our identity in humility, people are drawn to us not because they idolize us, but because they feel seen, valued, and loved. Idolization creates distance; it places someone on a pedestal, making authentic connection impossible. Love, on the other hand, is rooted in equality and shared vulnerability. 

To live humbly is to recognize that our worth is not measured by popularity, but by the positive impact we have on others. It is to serve, to forgive, and to seek understanding. It is to acknowledge our limitations and to celebrate the successes of others without envy. In doing so, we create a legacy not of fame, but of genuine love and respect.


Response

Lord Jesus, Son of God, in Your presence, even unclean spirits fall, recognizing Your divine authority, they proclaim Your holy name. Yet, with wisdom, You commanded silence, for Your time had not yet come. Teach us, Lord, to honor Your will, to follow Your path with humility and grace. May we, too, recognize Your power, and bow before Your majesty. Guide us to live in Your light, and to spread Your love through our deeds. Amen.


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