The man came to the other son
and gave the same order.
He said in reply,
‘Yes, sir,’ but did not go.
(Matthew 21:30)
Obedience is not by words but in deeds. It is easy to say yes in doing a particular task or work but to actually do it is an entirely different thing. We should do what we say and always be true to our commitments. Let our yes mean yes and our no mean no.
There are times when we want to get things done but somewhere along the way, we have failed to do it. There may be a lot of excuses or reasons but what matters most is our integrity. Actions reveal the truth of our hearts. Words matter, but obedience matters more. Saying “yes” to God is not enough — we must live it.
The parable is fundamentally about true obedience. The first son represents sinners who initially reject God but later repent and obey. The second son represents religious leaders who profess obedience but do not live it out. Jesus teaches that repentance + action = righteousness, not religious appearance. God’s Kingdom is open to those who respond to His call with humility, not those who rely on status or reputation.
God looks at sincerity, humility, and transformation. Even those society rejects can turn toward God and be welcomed. The last can become first; the broken can become beloved.
Where in my life am I like the first son — hesitant, resistant, or afraid — yet still being called gently by God to step into the vineyard? And where might I be like the second son — saying “yes” outwardly but holding back in practice? Jesus isn’t condemning; He’s inviting. Inviting us into integrity, into alignment, into the joy of doing the Father’s will. Let this day be a quiet turning — a small “yes” lived out in action, not just intention.
Lord Jesus, You see beyond my words and into my heart. You know the places where I hesitate, resist, or delay. Give me the grace to respond to You with sincerity. Teach me to obey not out of fear, but out of love. Where I have said “no,” help me turn back to You. Where I have said “yes” without action, strengthen my will. Make my life a true offering — not in appearance, but in faithful, humble obedience. Lead me into Your vineyard today, and stay with me as I work for Your Kingdom. Amen.
Reflection Source:
Conversation with Copilot
